“There are only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours, and God’s.” ~ Byron Katie
Today, I had the urge to write about something that I was outraged about. I was annoyed about a particular internet art star. I wanted to be the kid in the crowd who cries out that the emperor has no clothes. But I changed my mind. And even if I am right and the emperor is truly naked a lot of people love her. A lot of people hang on her every word and lavish fawning praise every time she overshares on her facebook fan page.
My grandmother used to say- “A still tongue in a wise head” In other words, keep your opinions to your self. So I will. I will not blab my snarly opinions, even though I want to. I will not be a critic. I will not be a judge. I will hold my tongue. It is just me being skeptical, about what I see as bullshit.
Truth is, I feel threatened by it. Not sure why. Some form of jealousy maybe? Some kind of resentful feelings about her success. Feelings of injustice maybe? My judgements might be my own insecurity. I don’t know. Then again I could be right. My skepticism could be spot on. What I see as a load of crap, could be indeed–crap. But it’s not my business. People apparently love crap. So who am I to try to counter that. Who am I to tell them what to believe. So I have told myself– Don’t sit around grumping in self righteous indignation about whether or not someone deserves their success.
You have your own work to do. I am reminded about my grade two teacher Mrs Clippingdale who never listened to tattle tales. She said if we were busy doing our work we wouldn’t be noticing other people not doing theirs. So thanks Mrs. C. I am taking your advice. I will do my own work. It’s not my job to save the world from naked emperors. Life is too short. So now–Back to work on this play. I am on draft three of that and I have a ways to go. Right now my play sucks so I need to stop avoiding it with indignation and other wastes of time.

6 responses to “Mind your own business”
i love this in so many ways! thank you lynna!!
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please for me if this posts twice, i don’t see my original comment… love this post so much! such wisdom. perfect for today. thank you!
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Two notes from Tracy. Yay!
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my internet is craptastical just now and your page loaded all weirdly so i hope this goes through…
for the record, knowing you as i do, you’re probaby right. 🙂
but yeah, i get it…and have resisted the urge on many occasions to mention the nudity of the emperor…:)
heads down and working…yep.
it’s fucking hard though…when it’s so OBVIOUS the emperor is naked…it can be quite a distraction seeing his bits waving about…*Grin*
LOVE you, Miz Lynna…xoxoxoxox
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Oh Mel, I know you know. Arghh it is hard to keep that tongue still.
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holy smokes, yes! i feel this all over the place online, at times! so beautifully expressed here, with grace. sometimes i have to step away from the obvious bs. and remember that wisdom… that apparently Mrs. C knew very well… and get back to my own {soul}work, trusting. Love you, Lynna!
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